As coaches, we’re trained to listen out for the language people use when they talk. It’s reflective of their state of mind.
Perhaps you’re unaware of how you speak? And therefore of how you feel and what you believe?
As a first step become conscious of that continuous voice in your head. Hear the words it uses when talking (internally and externally).
How often do you use the word “they”, or “everyone” instead of “I”?
How often do you use the word “should” or “must” instead of “want”?
For ex…
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Added by Heidi Cornelissen on November 16, 2009 at 9:50pm —
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I once visited Mexico and took a day excursion to a remote rock island where we were to swim through a cave into the inner part of the island to sit on a white sandy beach and eat lunch. As I began to swim through the channel, I realized that the current was not helping me at all. I quickly lost all strength as every muscle in my body became fatigued. I swam and swam and swam and seemed to get nowhere. Literally just before I was losing all ability to keep my face above water, a guide quickly sw…
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Added by Lily Finch on November 8, 2009 at 2:22pm —
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How much time do you spend worrying?
What is your worry?
Finances? Your Relationships? Your children? Your Future?
What is it that you’re holding onto?
It’s tiring and energy-consuming to hold onto things you’ve created. You may have seen the email joke which involves clicking on a specific area of the screen, only to have it dart away as soon as your mouse hovers over it? The frustration is the moment you attempt to click on it – it disappears!
The same is true of life; the more you chase a…
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Added by Heidi Cornelissen on November 4, 2009 at 12:15am —
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Monday: September Construction Spending, Pending Home Sales,
Tuesday: Factory Orders, Auto & Truck Sales
Wednesday: Federal Reserve Meeting
Thursday: Weekly initial jobless claims, 3rd Quarter Productivity
Friday: Consumer Credit, Wholesale Inventories
Larson Notes: The government stimulus in cars grew the economy lst month together with home sales by 3.5%. That is mainly due to cash for clunkers and the $8000 home…
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Added by Howard Larson on November 2, 2009 at 9:15pm —
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Did you know that within desire is the key to finding out WHO you are, what you are here to accomplish, and what it is that is your unique purpose? Did you know that within the word ‘desire’ itself are the keys to your genetic birthright and the key to DNA transformation? Did you know that for every desire you have that is not manifested quickly, there is an equal and opposing fear blocking the desire, and that all you have to do is get conscious of it through a specific modality, align with the…
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Added by Lily Finch on November 2, 2009 at 4:35pm —
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David Royston-Lee is an expert in business psychology, management consulting and marketing communication. Learn why you need to discover and build your personal brand in today's increasingly uncertain job markets. And also how your brand is an integral aspect of your authentic self and true calling in the world.…
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Added by Steve Nobel on October 29, 2009 at 3:50am —
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I saw a peacock today!
Yes – I’m quite excited. I haven’t seen one for many years.
What really makes me proud is that I was on my way to an appointment. Fearing I’d be late, my foot got heavier and my speedometer increased and I felt myself becoming anxious.
Luckily, because I already have a ticket on my desk at home, I pulled back and decided to keep within the speed limit.
And that’s when I saw it!
Of course being the analytical air sign that I am, I looked up the meaning of a peacock. And…
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Added by Heidi Cornelissen on October 27, 2009 at 2:50am —
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Monday:
Tuesday: Durable Goods Orders (B), Case-Shiller Home Price Index, Consumer Confidence (B)
Wednesday: Durable Goods Orders (B), New Home Sales (C+), Crude Inventories
Thursday: Weekly initial jobless claims (C+), Gross Domestic Product (B)
Friday: Personal Income and Consumption (C+), Chicago Regional Manufacturing Surveys (B)
*Rating Scale by Importance (A-F)
Larson note: Last week we saw Home sales go up but new housing st…
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Added by Howard Larson on October 26, 2009 at 8:30am —
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The ego has convinced 99.999% of those who have lived on the planet of two things:
1. I AM NOT ENOUGH
2. THERE IS NOT ENOUGH
And from these two have all the horror, suffering and pain on our planet occurred. I am not enough has turned into for those with more powerful personalities an ‘overcompensation for a feared lack of’ only to fail miserably to bring any peace, freedom and fulfillment in the attainment of things and credentials. It has for those with more sensitive personalities (to the hyp…
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Added by Lily Finch on October 25, 2009 at 10:51pm —
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I had a client at our Creative workshop this past week whose one canvas was of a river. She’d realised she preferred to go with the flow of life rather than make things continually hard for herself.
It was beautiful to watch her relax into an easier frame of mind instead of the constant battle she’d obviously been creating for herself in her life.
Are you perhaps doing the same?
Clues of this in your life may include:
• Often using the words “I should; I have to or I must”
• Constantly chasin…
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Added by Heidi Cornelissen on October 19, 2009 at 3:52am —
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I cringe when someone says they are seeking ‘financial security’ because I know they are coming from an ego illusion! Security doesn’t come from how much money we have or don’t have. Security doesn’t come from having what we think we have to have…before we can be happy or ‘secure.’ Security doesn’t come from the acceptance and approval of any other human being in this world. Security doesn’t come from obtaining a long list of goals. There is only one security in this world and we are only beginn…
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Added by Lily Finch on October 16, 2009 at 3:55pm —
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Added by Werner on October 16, 2009 at 2:03pm —
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Weddings are a joyous occasion but can get expensive in a hurry. With wedding crafts you can insert a personal touch and hold the price down as well. Here are a few ideas for wedding crafts to add sparkle and creativity to your big day.
It is not that hard to create your own wedding veil. To make this wedding craft, you will need a length of bridal illusion in the desired length. You will also need a comb to attach it to your hair and a hat or headpiece to cover the comb. Sew large running stit…
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Added by Renee Mossman on October 15, 2009 at 11:41am —
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A recent report by several independent researchers concludes that
participating in the arts nurtures the development of social, personal and
cognitive skills. Programs based on Arts can improve academic achievement
and decrease the tendency towards delinquency. It helps youth form
positive attitudes about themselves and build self-esteem.
Arts programs involve communication, interpretation and understanding of
complex symbols, much like mathematics and languages. Thus it fosters
higher-order an…
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Added by Renee Mossman on October 15, 2009 at 11:39am —
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We have been taught WHAT to believe for thousands of years and yet NEVER taught how to discern truth for ourselves. The time is past for us to have any mediator, leader, prophet, teacher, governmental head, etc. between us and that which created and loves us endlessly and KNOWS what is in our own best good! If you CAN’T discern what your purpose is, who is good for you and who isn’t, what business to go into, what partners to work with or marry, etc. then you must continue, out of necessity, to…
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Added by Lily Finch on October 10, 2009 at 4:31pm —
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Added by Yvonne Carson on October 9, 2009 at 1:30pm —
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(Moonflowers)
JOE: Good morning Calliope.
CALLIOPE: Good morning Joe. How are you today?
JOE: Thinking about yesterday's post and realizing I shared more personal information than usual.
CALLIOPE: Is that why you had to think about it a while before posting?
JOE: It is.
CALLIOPE: How do you feel about ha…
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Added by Joseph Langen on October 6, 2009 at 9:13am —
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Definition of success
Success
1. S: sense of direction
2. U: understanding of the self and other
3. C: courage, the courage to go for your vision, for what is ethically and morally beneficial for the world
4. C: compassion, having compassion, means overcoming our heart of conceit
5. E: esteem, developing self esteem by overcoming the…
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Added by Andre on October 5, 2009 at 10:47pm —
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Sacred text says our time on the planet will be both great and dreadful. How is that possible? Why would some people be increasing in fear, anxiety, hostility, panic and dread while others seem to be doing better and better and finding greater and greater peace, freedom and fulfillment? I’ll tell you why. Those who have greater peace each day have simply exercised the COURAGE to be willing to be wrong about what they currently believe to access a higher, supernatural view of life and themselves.…
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Added by Lily Finch on October 2, 2009 at 10:30pm —
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Monday:
Tuesday: Case-Shiller Housing Price Index, Consumer Confidence
Wednesday: Gross Domestic Product, Regional Manufacturing Surveys
Thursday: Weekly initial jobless claims, Personal Income and Consumption, Construction Spending, Auto and Truck Sales,
Friday: Factory Orders, Payroll / Nonfarm Payrolls
Larson note: Wow was I off last week. I expected upward trends and saw bad news home sales and factory order reports. Good news was the Fed will hold intere…
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Added by Howard Larson on September 28, 2009 at 7:30am —
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